{"id":453,"date":"2026-03-31T12:54:58","date_gmt":"2026-03-31T12:54:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wisecontradictions.com\/blog\/?p=453"},"modified":"2026-03-31T13:07:20","modified_gmt":"2026-03-31T13:07:20","slug":"move-at-the-speed-of-trust","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wisecontradictions.com\/blog\/?p=453","title":{"rendered":"Move at the Speed of Trust"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>When I joined NYC Quakers, our buildings were neglected and the audit had 126 open items. We had a stretched skeleton team. And I wasn&#8217;t sure where to start.<\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/adriennemareebrown.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/emergent-strategy.jpg?w=625&#038;ssl=1\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Around this time, I came across adrienne maree brown&#8217;s <a href=\"https:\/\/adriennemareebrown.net\/book\/emergent-strategy\/\">Emergent Strategy.<\/a> Brown is a facilitator and writer who&#8217;s worked with major social organizing movements including Black Lives Matter and Occupy Wall Street; her framework draws on Octavia Butler&#8217;s Earthseed philosophy, which I fell in love with when I read <a href=\"https:\/\/bookshop.org\/p\/books\/parable-of-the-sower-octavia-e-butler\/3d0d65170d5548df\">Parable of the Sower.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Parable of the Sower is worth a read. Here&#8217;s just one of the gems:<\/p>\n<p><em>All that you touch \/ You change.<\/em> <em>All that you change \/ Changes you. \/<\/em> <em>God is Change.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>The work you do changes you as you do it. You can&#8217;t stand outside it. Instead you work within it. Transforming and being transformed.<\/p>\n<p>Brown&#8217;s title caught my eye because it referenced a concept from a business course on disruptive innovation I&#8217;d taken that outlined deliberate and emergent strategies. Deliberate strategy works when the landscape and outcomes are known. You&#8217;re running a marathon, you&#8217;ve run shorter races, you have a base of fitness. You grab an off-the-shelf training plan and execute. Emergent strategy is for when you&#8217;re discovering the landscape and holding outcomes loosely. You experiment. You set shorter interim goals and see what sticks.<\/p>\n<p>When I arrived three years ago I knew our landmarked meeting houses had good bones but needed TLC after years of deferred maintenance. Instead of arriving with a vision, I did three things:<\/p>\n<p><strong>100 conversations in 100 days.<\/strong> I wanted to understand the landscape before trying to change it. What did people care about? What was working? What wasn&#8217;t? What excited people? What gave them pause?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Listen and make no major changes.<\/strong> This was harder than it sounds. There&#8217;s an expectation that leaders arrive with answers. I had hunches, but I held them loosely. Brown writes: &#8220;Move at the speed of trust.&#8221; That&#8217;s what those early months were \u2014 moving slowly enough to build trust before asking anyone to follow me somewhere new. This is especially true in Quaker contexts where &#8220;leadings&#8221; can and do come from everywhere.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Log and fix small things.<\/strong> A broken link, a missing door stopper, a sign that needed posting. Brown calls this &#8220;small is good, small is all&#8221; \u2014 the idea that large patterns reflect small ones. Nothing strategic, just things that made our places a little better and signaled that we were listening and acting on what we heard and saw.<\/p>\n<p>Brown also writes about &#8220;critical connections over critical mass.&#8221; Those early months were about connection: not building consensus for a big move, but learning who the organization actually was.<\/p>\n<p>The book&#8217;s core frame has stayed with me as we continue the work: when you&#8217;re transforming, you can&#8217;t execute a known playbook. You have to discover the path by walking it \u2014 and let it change you along the way.<\/p>\n<p>Now we have a strong team in place to nurture our spaces and our community. We&#8217;re still listening, noticing, learning and doing. Our strategy is emerging.<\/p>\n<p>If your organization knows what it is and where it&#8217;s going and how to get there, you probably don&#8217;t need this book. If it&#8217;s trying to figure that out, the frame might give you permission to experiment instead of pretending you have answers you don&#8217;t.<\/p>\n<p>What&#8217;s a book that&#8217;s helped you in your role? What&#8217;s something that&#8217;s stayed with you?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When I joined NYC Quakers, our buildings were neglected and the audit had 126 open items. We had a stretched skeleton team. And I wasn&#8217;t sure where to start. Around this time, I came across adrienne maree brown&#8217;s Emergent Strategy. 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